I love the saying .... “it’s not what it looks like!”.

The funny thing is that i heard this from lots of people that i know for sure that they cheat or cheated in the near past.

They told me amazing stories.

Fabulous explanations.

When i was about 15 someone told me at that time that cheating is the only real trick for saving a marriage, at least till the things between the partners go to normal.

I was shocked and totally disliked the theory.

Later on ... in life ... i cheated and i was cheated.

I did not like neither of the circumstances ... but one day i had a moment of awakening, seeing the message behind the message ... and i understood that i cheated cause i considered that the relationship i had did not offered me what i really expected ... but also that i had been cheated cause i was not acting like the partner i had to be.

I know ... cheating is not moral.

But ... nowadays it is almost normal ... cause it happens so ofter for so ... so many people.

Cheating became the last option before breaking up.

A last used trick to save something that looks almost impossible to save.

And the theory i heard when i was 15 ... and totally disliked looks so true.

 

But why?!

Sometimes the only sense for cheating is just as someone to come in your life and help you be reinvented.

To help you understand how you used to act long time ago, in the moment when you met the person that is today ... still your partner.

And the funny thing is that the energies that you come back with in your relationship can help the 2 of you a lot.

I know ... i am too abstract ... and the theory of cheating is much too simple to be understood.

But ... that’s my style!

I just love to define the undefined ... and see the meaning of abstract in our silly lives

 

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